- There are rare occurrences when meeting someone from a dating app for the first time results in danger
- By following some simple guidelines when talking to a match and setting up the first date you can eliminate most of the change of something bad happening
- Safety is important, and while there is a chance something bad could happen, that chance is very low
So, you’ve been swiping all day and have a few matches. You really hit it off with one of the matches and set up a time and place to meet. How do you prepare for the low (but possible) chance that this person is up to no good?
When venturing into the real world from a dating app, for your safety it is important to remember the following:
- Keep personal details to a minimum
- Don’t feel pressured into ANYTHING, it’s okay to say no and just leave (this is why picking a good first date activity is important)
- Don’t meet in private
- Tell someone you trust when, where, and who you are going out with
- Always trust your gut, if something isn’t sitting right leave
There are a few things to keep in mind when you're out on a first date with someone you've met through a dating app. First, make sure to be safe and respectful of your date's space. If they're not comfortable with being touched or kissed, don't force things. Second, always use common sense when it comes to drinking and driving. Don't take risks you wouldn't take if you were sober. Finally, never share your personal information – like your address or phone number – without permission.
There have been a few events involving dangerous first dates that have made headlines. In March, a woman in Florida was stabbed after her date spiked her drink with heroin. In January, a woman in Illinois was killed after her date punched her in the face. And in December 2016, a man in California stabbed his date after she refused to have sex with him.
The world is a crazy place, remember to do what you can to ensure you are safe!
